God used this book to show me how to do something that I thought I was already doing or at least wanted to do......respect my husband. God opened my eyes to understanding how my husband was interpreting my words and how I could express the respect I felt for him in a way he would understand. This book also taught my husband the importance of showing his love for me on a day to day basis. We're finally off the "Crazy Cycle".....for the most part :-) My husband and I buy this book for every couple we know who is getting married, it truly is a MUST read!!